Christmas Promise

We read a Christmas devotion today that talked about advent and the promises God has made, and kept, in our lives.  It went on to suggest, as a holiday activity, creating a "Promise Tree", where each family member could hang something to represent a promise they were making for the season.  Because our lives are already hectic, and particularly this time of year, I didn't get this tradition together, but I want to make a promise of my own this season.  Writing about it will make me more accountable to it.  If you are reading this, feel free to help me in staying accountable.

I tend to put a lot of pressure on myself during Christmas, well actually all the time, but particularly at this time of year.  There are so many ways to celebrate, people to make gifts for, parties to host... All things that I love to do, but when I get overwhelmed with it all I know that it is my family that suffers along with me.

This Christmas I promise to take the time each day to enjoy my family.  I know that sounds cliche, and not very revolutionary, but I mean to be intentional about this.  I will be intentional about sitting down and being fully present with each of them. To truly enjoy each of our traditions, not just check them off the list.  Or, to do something not on the list at all, simply because it will make one of my children, or my husband, smile.  Sometimes in the busyness of taking care of my family I'm afraid I lose sight of those beautiful smiles.  I don't want to do that this Christmas- I want joy to fill our home, and I want to participate in that joy.